64 and still confused!

I have been seeing a man of 69 years for the last 5 months. At first he was so funny, caring, lovable and sweet. Now, after I have done lots of things for him he seems to take me for granted and sometimes doesn't even seem to want me around. He smokes pot every night and then after eating falls asleep. He is a recovered alcoholic of 30 years and seems to have a Jekyll and Hyde personality. He wants me to listen to him and do what he says. He gambles at the casino where he loses a lot of money and then buys scratch and win tickets by the handful daily. He says he loves me and wants us to move in together. I think I've been taken in by this guy but do have strong feelings for him. He lives like a slob (you couldn't even imagine!) and can very seldom pay his bills.

why would you knowingly want to move in with someone who has all them traits on top of being a slob and on top of being a Jekyll and Hyde. If you ask me I think he wants you around for his benefit and for that reason alone. You seem like a nice person and nice people are usually the ones to get advantage taking of them. and it doesn't matter if you 16 or 30 or 90 ... 1 sure way to keep a girl around or to get into their pants is to say I love you. I really honestly think hes only using you and if hes barely paying his bills what better way to get them paid but to have someone move in and pay them. I really don't mean to hurt your feelings or want to make you upset. I just wanted to tell you my honest opinion so you hopefully make the right choice...... good luck