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Twenty-six year old virgin, has a crush on 18 year old guy; Is this wrong?

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Yes, I'm twenty-six years old and I'm still a virgin. Not because of religious views or because no guy has never approached me. I've never been in love and maybe I want all that old fashioned hearts and flowers dating stuff. I've never got that from a guy, they always seemed to treat my virginity as some sort of affliction that I needed riding of. If I got that feeling from a guy I just would walk away or stop talking to him. I've never had a boyfriend and I'm not broken up about it, however, my inexperience is embarrassing. This guy I work with, I don't know there's something about him that attracts me to him, and I feel like he feels the same. I tried to learn more about him and I found some qualities I don't like but, they aren't deal breakers until I found out that he's 18! I'm 26! Maturity wise, we might be some what equal but he might not see me that way and I don't want to be rejected by him. He might only see me as a friendly co-worker and it may just be me that is attracted to him. I don't know how to handle this situation. Should I just tell him how I'm feeling? Will my age creep him out?

Twenty-six year old virgin, has a crush on 18 year old guy; Is this wrong?

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Your age will more than likely not be an issue. As far as coming right out and telling him you like him, I do not think it is a good idea. It may be better to take a softer approach and ask him if he is free after work to get together. A casual date will let you know if there is mutual attraction. To hard of an approach might just spoil a good work relationship. Good luck~!

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