Sex thoughts

Hi, I am a very young woman, me and my husband got married a year ago but we have been toghether for 8 years now, I alwys knew he had a lot of woman, so it wasn't that I didn't know anything, but few days ago we had a talk becouse I heard something, and confronted him about it, and I know he was totaly honest, I do not think he lied to me, but I found out about someone that was 20 years older than him that he had sex with numerus times and my problem is, everytime we have sex I can not stop thinking, think about did he do it to her this way, does he want her, does he mis her, not only her, but she is the one that worries me the most, please, I need help, I love him and I think he loves me back, but how can I have a healthy marrige with the thouts I have? Sometimes I think he is busy with things that he souldnt be, but can't prove it, I do not know if he is cheating or not? And I don't want to acuse him, if he isn't guilty, please please please help!!!!!

If the times with this other woman were before you and him, there is no reason to be mad. she should be no different than any other woman he had before you. If it was during your relationship with you and you forgave him, well its easier to forgive than forget. If you want your marriage to work you cant let it emotionally destroy you. you have said you believe him and think he is honest but yet then you say you think he is doing things he shouldnt?