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I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we have been living together for a year. Everything is great, we are best friends, he is loving and attentative. We always have fun and have date nights etc but my one issue is that he has no interest in sex. Its been this way fir a couple of years, not quute as bad as it is now. We were never that physical, or as much as other people but now its been almost 4 months since anything happened in that department! Im trying to keep positive, he says hes interwsted and loves eveverything about me, he just doesn't see it as important. I di believe him but I can't feel that we are totally stuck in a rut which is really hard to get out of! We have very busy lives and have said we need to make more 'us time' but it just doesn't seem to happen! I guess I've just come here for either some reassurance or a reality check! Any help of points of view would be much apappreciated

Sexless relationship

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You should take a weekend off and get away just the two of you book a hotel and tell him that you want it

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to me i think maybe something must be wrong i mean thats a guy number one priority loving sex and when ur in a relationship i mean u said almost 4 months since u havent have sex maybe i mite be wrong but is he gay or sick or maybe having sex with someoneelse. i mean if a man loves u he should be able to satisfy his woman in every need so that she doesnt have to get it outside he needs to wake up cause i mean who doesnt love sex and if i as ur man trust me baby i wouldve satisfy u from head to toe and trust me u wouldnt want to leave. i mean sex has a lot to do with relationships u have to know how to keep one . if ur girlfriend need loving u have to give it to her unless u going to be alone. try ask him about it and tell him how u feel cause i mean woman have needs

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