I miss her. Help!

I was in a relationship with an amazing girl 2 years ago. She ended the relationship because she didn't feel appreciated and just didn't believe me when I told her how beautiful she was and how much I loved her. She moved to Lincoln to become a mature student 2 years ago and the relationship just didn't last. She's still there studying now and I'm in Coventry. We've not spoke in quite some time. I messaged her last December for her birthday but got no response. I tried to move on and ignore how I felt. The truth is, I've never stopped loving her and I think about her constantly. She'll be in Lincoln for at least another year. I don't know what to do, if anything. I'd do anything to have her back. But honestly I just want her to be happy, and she obviously wasn't with me or we'd still be together, right? She's incredible. Has anyone else ever been in a similar situation? What did you do? Any advice would be really appreciated. Thank you

i would not pursue someone who did not want me but in your case u can give a last try asking her maybe she has changed her mind otherwise move on

I believe you should go to Lincoln and talk to her, express your feelings for her, I am not going to say she will take you back because she might not feel the same way about you. Maybe the absence made her feel a different way. Go talk to her and if she doesn't feel the same way for you then you know you should just let her go and let her move on with her life. Remember this is going to be 50/50 so don't expect anything... I hope this helps sweetie. Good luck

Thanks for the responses. Jennifer, your response makes perfect sense, I just need to man up and be prepared for possible rejection, but wow it's scary! She means everything to me, that's why I've left her alone for so long. I upset her before, I'd hate to do it again. She deserves the best. Complete happiness. I just know she won't see me as sincere because of her insecurities from before. Argh, I know I'm rambling. I just wish she truly knew and believed how I felt so I could get an honest idea of her feelings.