Fiance finances

I have been engaged for 4 years. for the first year it was great, we moved near his family and about 40 minutes away from mine. he became controlling and trapped me at our house frequently with no vehicle or money. i am disabled from a mva and no one will hire me with my injuries. so i depend on him financially but he controls the money. i became pregnant even though i was on b.c. he became extremely emotionally abusive and sometimes physically. he would choke me when i was pregnant and actually bit me in the face once. i left but he talked me into coming back. i know it sounds like a just get up and leave him but when you've been worked into the situation for years its harder. He has his own business and recently has hired known drug addicts to work for him. i was upset from the beginning and preached the safety issues as we have a young child. I found out from a friend who worked within that these addicts call him all day asking for money for gas and groceries etc. he actually gives it to them and they supposedly pay him back. i ask him for money for milk and he flips out i don't get it. he gives him family money constantly as well and he gives it to them. they are bad people who commit welfare fraud and drink their money away. i don't know what to do. i want to leave but i have no money or ability to get a job (though id love to) and i have a small child. he is abusive and controlling and i want to leave but i am stuck. i just want him to quit giving our money away. he smokes pot and forgets they owe him and we barely pay our bills.i know he makes good money but i never see it. what i can i do??

Oh my. Just because he has money does not mean you cannot get help elsewhere. There are homeless shelters that are better than living in the situation you are living in. I feel so bad for you:( This is not a good fiance and you do not want to let him choose your life for you or your child. You cannot get abused unless you let him. It's a cycle and it's up to you to break it. Once you have left him, you will have a stronger head to be able to see clearly how to survive on your own. Don't let your disability get you down. You can get help.