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Do I make a move?

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So, I'm a girl, at university and I've joined a Netball society. Every Tuesday night each university team (basketball, hockey etc.) meet up at a pub, get drunk and heads out to the on-campus club. I've recently become single (my own choice) and I've been having fun meeting new guys, doing what I want etc. Two weeks ago, on social night I met a football player, he's totally hot, and I slept with him that night. The following morning, I asked if I could lend his jacket to go home in because it was bloody freezing to which he did. He never asked for my number or anything and I honestly didn't think anything of it, just a fun night. The following Sunday he added me on Facebook and messaged me asking when I would be in work so he could get his jacket (he knew the shop that I work in - served him a few times before actually meeting him) I told him I'd be in work tomorrow. So I made myself look hot, he came and got his jacket (was a little awkward but I played it so cool) then later that night he messaged me on Facebook asking me around his 'to chill'. I really wanted to. But I didn't want to look easy. So I said no, another time maybe. Then I slept with him again on the Tuesday from seeing him out on social. He didn't ask for my number again and he hasn't spoke to me since. So yeah, its been nearly a week. I truly believe that girls shouldn't do all the running but I am interested and I want to speak to him but I just don't know whether I should. Is it because I am newly single and miss the attention of having someone fuss over me? Am I just being needy after coming out of a relationship? I know we're at uni and people do have one night stands and that I was just one of them girls to just forget about but I like it when things happen for a reason. When that guy picks you to want to see again. When I said no to 'chilling with him' did he interpret that as 'I don't chill with folk I just sleep with them'. I'm not use to handling these situations, I'm a pretty honest person and I'd be willing to be completely honest with that person but it didn't work out so well last time, I was seen as easy. Nobody wants that. But how do you even get a guy's attention without sleeping with him Love the idea of passion etc. And to be honest, sex with the same person just gets better. Fuck Buddies are the best but so complicated.

Do I make a move?

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he may think you are the sleeping type and wont take you seriously,avoid this in future, get to know them first .Treat this as a gone thing because he wants only sex

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