Missing a girl

I met a girl, who was going steady in 2011 at a concert. I asked her to kiss me and she said she couldn't because she has just got serious with another. Which was fine, she added me on Facebook and that was it. I then never heard from her till summer 2013. She posted up on facebook saying take me back till oxegen 2011 coldplay. that is were we were chatting. so i commented under it saying take me back too. So then we got chatting and she said why dont you come down, i said i would but i will inly try and kiss you. she said that cant happen. anyways i went down had a few drink kissed her and slept in her bed. she then broke up with her bf and i stopped seeing this other girl and we met up a dew more times. Last meeting we stayed in a hotel together we both had an amazing night. She said she could stop thinking about it. then i said the same. Haven't met since cause she was scared of seriousness does this mean she doesn't want me ? She is 19 and in uni, and I'm 22 working full time and we live nearly 2 hours from each other. How do I get her back, iv told her how I feel loads of times.

r u really sure for what u feel for her. she likes u too, but she was maybe afraid to get hurt.. if u are really serious of what u feel go show her how u love her. don't just say it..

i think you both need confrontation. She left a guy she was serious with aftr sleeping with you so how can she be sure about u....she myt do the same with you too....you did the same with the girl you were seeing......no matter she dazzled you but the problem is you both cannot go into a relationship coz you both are afraid of it.....what you need is to sit and talk about this and spend some time together(maybe watch a couple of romantic movies like the twilight saga,the vow,ps i love you) that will help you people to see that a relationship means something....it is not bad to be in a healthy relationship.....i myself am in a reltnship since 5yrs and i havent cheated on my gf since........remember discussions are most important.....try it