Boyfriend asks another girl to have sex

On christmas day (our one year anniversary) i go through my boyfriends old phone. He had gotten a new one for Christmas and so i was just looking at it to see our old pics and messages but i came across some messages from an unknown number. The first thing i see is a message from her saying, "I wouldn't want to fuck you even if i was single..." And at that moment my heart dropped to the floor because there was no way these was going to be anything 'kosher' about this. My boyfriend then replies, "All you had to say is that...i have a bf, i dont wanna fuck" and thats where it doesnt make sense because there are no messages showing him asking to have sex. Then he texts her back asking her if she wants Starbucks?!! At this point i know they work together. Also the date this took place was on the Sunday before while he was at work and i was at home in his bed...I ask him the next morning what the messages were about and he just becomes a complete idiot asking me where i got them from? like dude that is the least of your worries. He says that he called her and asked if she would fuck him and she rejected him and thats where the messages pick up at..Im wondering what i should do?!?! Nothing ever happened and he swears that he probably wouldnt ever go through with it...im 7 months pregnant with his baby...i cant believe he would do this to me. We are giving our baby up for adoption and so its really hard to just drop him and he is just so sorry. .. i need advice on what to do.. do i take him back or take no bullshit?

Hi have just read your post i know what this feels like it has happened to me before too. My advice don't give the baby up for adoption keep it im sure you would me a great mum there are lots of support groups out there that could help you too. And is for him kick him to the curb and don't take no shit. You will eventually stop hurting and learn to be independent again sometimes we are better off on our own.

forgive him

hello, don't take bullshit from him any more cause this is a corner stone to your entire life and how people will treat you as you go on living. its all about respecting yourself enough and create limitations to the people around you so they will know where are you standing regarding issues as loyalty for instance. about your child ,I think that only after considering the whole details of handling a child on your own and seeing you meet these requirements only then you can decide if to keep the baby. good luck