Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
Hi my names joe and I met this girl about 2 weeks ago and we've been talking every day since then, but yesterday she didn't answer my good morning text and we didn't talk until 12 pm and the conversation was short and she seemed a little annoyed, this morning I sent her a good morning text but she hasn't responded to it yet, it's there anything I can do to maybe find out if she is ok and get us talking again?
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
Maybe she is having a hard time in her life right now. You should not blow up her phone but maybe every couple of days ask how she is doing. Call her beautiful, pretty or amazing. Anything to just make her smile.
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
Thanks izzy, I actually do do that a lot whenever I wish her goodnight or good morning, but what if she doesn't respond to those messages? I really like this girl a lot and I just don't want to seem desperate to her by sending her a bunch of messages that she doesn't respond to... But thank you for your advice and I'll try that next time I text her
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
Just stick with the good morning and good nights but do toss in beautiful, pretty and compliments two texts won't seem like your over doing it but make it clear she is one your mind and you do like her and the fact she will then have you on her mind when she wakes up and and goes to bed.
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
I know I am I realize that, but it's just a little difficult to arrange to meet her in person without texting her. I guess I could either call or FaceTime her, but I think that I might just wait a couple of days before I do... What do you guys think? And should I keep wishing her goodnight and good morning between that time? Or should I just wait a few days before I even think about trying to contact her again?
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
Hey, its only been two weeks - I'm not sure how much you know about her - but women 'in general' tend to want the best of both worlds with there being a fine-line between love him or lose him - they want an attentive,sensitive,devoted man who is alternatively: strong, self-reliant and has his own life. That being said - text her a good morning text in a few days and have something short but interesting to say and include something about what a 'great day' you're about to have ( make it up if you have to but no bragging - the point is to get a convo going). This will not only give her SOMETHING to respond to, but If something is wrong in her life this will give her an opening to say so (as opposed to you just prying with questions and telling her she's beautiful) Remember - she never SAID anything was wrong and this is a very new relationship - don't start walking on eggshells already!!
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
Ok thank you guys so much for the advice, I'm just really new to this whole relatipnship thing and I'm just a little scared about losing her because I really do like her a lot and I hope I can be everything that you guys said before. Maybe I'll call her on Tuesday or Wednesday after I send her the good morning text, I really appreciate it guys and I owe you a big one for helping me with this and I hope it works out
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
I wish you the best of luck(: don't hesitate to ask for more advice(:
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
Actually I do have one more question, what do you guys suggest, should I just wait 2 days until Tuesday or give it more time and just wait until Wednesday?
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
If she responds back to your good morning txt on Tuesday. Call her Tuesday later on. If she doesn't respond back just surprise call her on Wednesday!(:
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
Ok I will :D thanks so much for the help guys I really do appreciate it
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
No problem!
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
Sorry one more thing haha in the good morning text, should I tell had that I want to call her later, something like: "good morning beautiful, I hope you have an amazing day today :) if you want and if you're not busy later, I'd love to talk, so if you're free just let me know and I'll give you a call" is that too much or should I add anything to it?
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
That sounds perfect!(: that will get her to want to reply.
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
Ok thanks! I feel a lot more comfortable now with this whole thing and I can't wait to see how this plays out! Thank you guys so much and if you want maybe I'll post here just to let you know how it works out :D
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
Please do!(:
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
Ok so she responded to my text and it turned that she was just having a bad week and we're talking again. I was just a little paranoid :P but thank you guys do much for all of your advice :)
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
She is acting as if she wants out of this shot relationship.
I would not try to contact her again, let her make the move.
Get out while the getting is good.
Louise
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
PS If she has these moods, you better watch out.
Louise
Am I just overthinking this or is there an actual problem?
You should start any relationship on the right track by trusting the other person as well as yourself. Assume that she is okay. If she wants to continue with you, she will let you know. Also, I would recommend against sending daily good morning or good night messages too early upon meeting someone; It can become a tedious, tiring habit for both of you.
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