Husband questionable behavior

Basically I have been married for 11 years. I have been cheated on by my spouse numerous times more than I would care to admit. The last two females have had tatoos covering their arms and bodies. I am not saying thats a bad thing at all to be tatooed, its just bad for me because I have no tatoos and do not have any plans to get any ever. However, aside from the past cheating my husband and I decided to try and work it out and stay together no longer cheating. Recently he has been on facebook full on making himself sexually and emotional ly available to tatooed females all over facebook. He goes beyond flirting by making sexual advances at them. When I ask him if he is into tatooed females he just says "I generally like sluts". He never will look me in the face and tell me yes or no. I feel I deserve to know why I never get a straight answer and why he just continues adding and flirting with females whom are covered in tatoos. Nevermind the fact I am alreasy insecure because of his past cheating antics now I feel I am constantly competing against something I will not be and am unwilling to become. Not sure what to do but know I feel violated In a sense any way because he has all these females on facebook who he continues to be sexual with.

To me he dosnt respect you , as hes running around facebook talking to females and making sexual advances. have u made it clear that you feel disrespected. i may be stepping out of line but how is your sex life. its obvious hes just probably looking for sex as he said hes just like slutty women.

Clearly no your right he doesnt! If he did he would respect that his cheating scandals have taken a toll on me and he wouldnt go around facebook like he does if he respected how his infidelity has affected me. It just sucks because it seems like I am the one who tries so hard and all I get is crapped on in return.

The problem here is you. You've been married for 11 years and have been cheated on more times than you care to admit?!? Who cares about tattoos...who cares what the other women looked like...he has betrayed you over and over again..his actions have spoken and so have yours by staying with him and continually setting yourself up for the next fall. You state that you are constantly competing...why bother competing at all? A true relationship doesn't have competition, only trust and respect. He has none for you...it's that simple. You will never get a straight answer because he doesn't respect you or his marriage. Find a man who respects you for who you are. You right, you are being violated in every way and in every sense but YOU are allowing it to happen.

The only problem is I don't think I could ever leave him ever, not just because of the two kids or the fact that we have been married 11+ years and forgive me for saying this but the SEX IS AMAZING!!! Every time he has cheated I've always gone and cheated too as an eye for an eye so to speak and have yet to find anyone packing 11"s like his and how he works it OMG and I feel a little guilty because I've never actually caught him sleeping with anyone but I go the full way when I feel he has.I don't know what to do maybe if I try things that the tattoo whores do he might be a bit more lovey dovey towards me.I mean we have sex daily but there's some days he wants to and is ready but I deny him partially because of the pain of his male member there's only so much sometimes a girl can take without a break.Maybe I'm over reacting posting my marriage on here I don't know it just feels good to get my insecurities out there....