Empty feeling
BRITMBNM30 - Feb 10 2014 at 03:44
FYI: We have been dating for 10months
We live 45 min from each other
He's the one who wanted a relationship
He said I love you first
Both in college, I'm 19 and he's 20
both work part-time jobs
both have money for the most part and cars
Hes Haitian, has been here 4 years
Ive been in a 3 year relationship prior to meeting him, had no intentions of being in a serious relationship. Really fell hard for him, keeping it to myself however.
I really don't understand him, things will be going so well and he will just shut me out. there is no talking to him, he is damn near emotionless. and yesterday he just snapped on me, just striaght mean ( via text message)
we haven't talk for a day or two, we do this often( both busy and thats cool doesn't really both me)
but right now i feel so numb, litterally empty.
I guess my question is, what is this feeling? how come I've never felt like this with my ex?
someone please help :/
I have felt like this in the past and can totally relate to what's going on. I feel like the problem is like you said that he seems to "shut you out" and seems emotionless. But that's not the case in reality, he has emotions, I just feel like boys have a much harder time expressing their emotions. And the only way I have been able to get past boyfriends to express themselves and what is on their minds, is to almost drag it out of them. It's exhausting. but try just being straightforward with him, just tell him...it seems like you're keeping things in, and I at least deserve to be let in, just tell him that you want him to let you in more, and communicate more.
Hope I helped at least a little bit. I feel your pain! Good luck with everything!