Dating... mixed signals?

I'll try and make this as brief as possible. I met this guy 6 months ago and things were going amazing. I told him i wasn't sure about seeing him since i was moving away in 3 weeks and i'd be 2 hours away. He said it wasn't that far so I carried on seeing him and then i moved away. I noticed he'd mapped out routes from where he lived to where i now live. I move away and things still appear to be going okay except he hasn't come to see me once in the 5 months i've been here. Now this is where I'm confused, he says he's too busy and to be fair he definitely is, he works 60-70 maybe more hours a week, this worried me so eventually i ask where i stood with him and he said at the mo he's too busy for a relationship. I accepted this and decided to see where things go. He still hasn't come down to see me and I called him and we argued and he said he can't have a relationship while he is in this job. From here it seems obvious what i should do, i should just let go. Thing is i already like this guy to bits and i could let him go if the whole thing wasn't so confusing, my questions are why would he continue to see someone 2 hours away if he had no interest in pursuing a relationship? he definitely likes me he tells me all the time and tells me lovely things but his actions arent matching his words, he's not using me for sex because he continues to maintain contact even though sometimes we don't see each other in 2 months. I just dont understand :( i'm hurt and disappointed so ANY advice is appreciated, i just don't understand it :(

Yes Louise, he definitely likes you but he's just not that into you to make the effort to drive 2 hours to see you....it's that simple. When a man's heart is gone (forget about the sex) wild horses won't stop him from seeing a woman. You're correct, actions speak and his are. The longer you wait for this man, the quicker you'll find yourself back where you are now.