Wife is not commucating with me

Wife let me 6 months ago .....I've been taking care of Grandfather for 5 years He is 92 . Two years ago she told me to do something about Him because it was effecting our marriage putting Him first. We have been talking and texting planning to move to Texas in May . She dropped Her phone and broke it and had to send it off to get fixed ....finally 3and a half weeks later I tex Her friend asking about Her and why is she not returning my phone calls or tex .....She said She is confused ....and She don't know what to say to me anymore ....please some advice

Hats off to you Sundance for looking out for your Grandfather, however, your wife has basically called it quits. Her actions have spoken after giving you the ultimatum. If you were planning to reunite then she has had second thoughts but her head, heart and gut are not lining up, hence her confusion. I'm sorry, but if you and the marriage were her priority, then she would be talking to you continually.

Thank You so much for your reply ....yeah she said she call in a couple days ...and she would call at night before she went to work .....well she didn't call tonight . I just she would be women enough to tell me its over so I can go on with my life

Sundance, your wife needs to be woman enough to tell you face to face that it's over....this could be her stumbling block. She made the decision to leave in difficult circumstances,but only after giving you a heads up why. It doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't love you, but rather she can't live with you in the circumstances and therefore, doesn't have the need (priority) to be with you. Sundance, time heals everything and you never know what the future holds for you and your marriage. But one thing you need to understand is that your wife WILL be in contact with you again when she has to NEED to. Then, and only then, will you get answers.

I don\\\\\\\'t know its crazy / we was suppose to meet this month and then this .....Her avoiding my tex / calls ..I never called or texed today .She told Her friend She was scared of me .....I never knew it ....I have Never laid a band on Her or any women .....I do have a anxiety disorder ....which I have been off my meds .....but she dont know that ....going to the Dr. Tomorrow morning .She a good women morals values belief always trusted her ...not in Her character ....just don\\\\\\\'t know what to do or think