Boyfriend doesnt have sex with me but watches porn :(

So heres the thing, I have been living with my boyfriend for just over a month now, 19 and he is 22 and we have been together 13 months. but since i have lived here we have had sex once! he is my first sexual partner and i am young and feel like im in a marriage. I cant say it started when i moved in it happened before that, he just isnt interested in me, i always initiate and then get rejected, i have been waiting in my underwear for him or sent him sexy messages etc but he always says no. I cant help but take it as a personal attack, it really makes me feel rubbish about myself and unattractive and not good enough. we had a few arguments about it but it always end with him saying he will change blah blah but nothing still! we came to blows last night when it happend again i confronted him and asked him if he has been touching his self and watching porn he said no so i asked to see his phone and he admitted he had. that was a major kick in face, not fact he masturbates and watches porn, its the fact that he does that but has told me before he just hasnt felt like it etc when he has been in the mood. i feel so hurt and betrayed, its obviously me he doesnt want and now i dont know what to do. i resent him- calll me dramatic but i do. i feel like im in a friendship, go to work come home go to sleep. thats it! i feel like i need excitement and passion but cannot get it with him. i love him lots and it hurts me to think of not being with him but it also feels like our relationship as lost all intimacy and closeness. i would never cheat on him but lately i have thought about other people, people i work with and are flirty and attractive. i feel i deserve to be with someone who wants me physically like i want them and finds me attractive not someone who makes me feel this way. what do i do?

I agree with the last post has to be something going on for him to not want to touch his woman at age 22.

Maybe because you're 19, and in his eyes too young. Or MAYBE, just speculating here, maybe he is the old fashioned "marriage before sex". Ladies, hold on to your panties.

Every chance he is Gay. Move on as soon as possible...things will only get worse as years go on. First it is once a month, then once in 3-4 months, soon once in 6 months and will proceed to he hasn't touched me in the past 1-2 years. Difficult to survive in such a relationship because you will constantly keep getting rejected, start feeling unattractive (even though you may be very sexy), will affect your confidence in yourself, will force you to cheat. Don't wait to get there. If right now the relationship hurts, years on it will hurt 10 times more!

Get out as soon as possible. Speaking form experience , i was with a guy for many years and the same thing. It took my 20's I never felt attractive, the loneliness is so painful . You need to find another. I think he is gay.... or possibly addicted to porn , it is so common now, it will result in dysfunction on his part. So many guys are that way. My advice is to split up move on and be happy, don't waste anymore time here.