Early problems

Hi! I have been dating my guy for 2 months, and officially together for one. I now am having doubts about the relationship that have come from no where! We are quite different people- I am always out and socializing, where as he is happy to stay home. I almost feel like we are at different stages of our lives. I can see myself with him in the future (5 years when I want to settle down etc) but i don't know if hes right for me now. I am so confused and honestly have no clue what to do about it! Any help would be greatly appreciated :)

Hi I would be asking myself the question as to what was the trigger to your doubts . Sometimes it takes a while to find where you are at in a new relationship. I think you know what to do about it. I think he is not right for you now. It is better in the long run. Two months is still early and of you are having doubts , that is a good sign, for the relationship. It is a hard position to be in when it is you that has to be the bad guy and break it off. Give yourself some space and time on your own for a while. This is your life and you are facing a big decision. Write down a list of things you want from a potential relationship, in the future. Imagine what that is like to be in it. Imagine how it is meant to feel like. Now imagine the same for the guy you are dating, doesn't he deserve to be happy and content also. Get yourself into a place mentally where you have explored all the directions to go. do which ever makes you feel at the most ease. An important question to ask yourself is are you ready for a relationship?

sorry I meant two months is still early for you to be having doubts , that is not a good sign for the relationship....