Understanding rejection

I am in love with a woman who has rejected me. I am ok with that but am confused by her actions. She flirts with me. Told me I am atttractive. I catch her making eye contact with me all the time. She texts me. When telling me about her social life she is always specific that it is with a girl or relative even though I don't ask. Then tonight when I told her I was attracted to her she said I was just "another one of the boys" but then I found out she got ill "threw up" after telling me that. I later asked her if she was being honest with me she again denied having feelings for me. Any insight out there?

Bob, why waste your time on a woman who just strings you along. Walk away from her and ignore her totally and then see what her actions are.

She has never in words told you she loves you so why try to read body languages which may or may not be right? Even if it was right, until she admits something like that of what use is it? Move on, find someone else. If she is interested, she will stop playing games and come to you. If she does not, its proof she never was interested.

We work together and I am trying to move along I am being as nice and cooperative but she is now curt. Seems angry. Glares at me. We are a work team and it is total hell. Today I asked her if I have done something wrong and said no but it is as if she\'s mad because I don\'t give her the same attention. We have to work together but it is tough. I am just as polite,courteous and helpful but she is almost hostile. I am In my fortys I guess she is in her 30sd

Today was hell I finally got fed up and confronted her about her actions here at work and she went nuts and she denied it and told to quite asking. So I'm just trying to stay focused on my work I'm going to transfer out if things don't cool down

Bob, now that you've shed some light into it, it's different problem. She demonstrates a very insecure person who has personal problems and is bringing them to the workplace. Remain polite and courteous to do your work properly but if she can't/won't work as team, then you need to take it further to those above you at your workplace because your work efforts will eventually suffer from this 'conflict'. Above all, don't give her the satisfaction by allowing her to manipulate you with her little games.

Will now after that last episode she is acting like nothing ever happened so hope we can just work and keep it all business.

Why do you want to be in love with her in the first place? If you get into a relationship with her your whole life will be like these last few days....a roller coaster of confusions. Keep only a working relationship with her. And like you said if its not working then take a transfer out.