Pregnancy

Help.. okay so I have irregular periods but im sure my last period started 11 jan, and ended 3-5 days later, I had sex with this man on the 17th jan, but then got back with my partner from 10 years on the 25th jan, we have had sex from the 28th jan to present, I discovered I was pregnant on feb 17th I had ultra sound scan on march 19th and measured 8 Weeks 2 days, whos more likely to be the babys dad? my doctor says I conceived around feb 2nd, but im confused? help thanks Sue x

Difficult to say. Your doc would be more accurate so go with that. Babies can grow quicker and can be bigger than their age. So if your scan says 8 week 2 days, it just means the baby's development matches 8 weeks 2 days (the baby might have still been conceived around feb 2nd). What has been your shortest periods cycle (usually regular cycle is 28 days)?

Hi The doctor would be quiet accurate so I would go with that too. The date is closer to you fella on the 28th so Id say it is him.....I would have a private chat with doctor if that would make you fell better it might ease your mind. I wouldn't worry about it too much this is life changing enjoy your pregnancy with your partner.

hi there thankyou for both replys, I have asked 3 different doctors and they are all saying the same thing I just cant seem to believe them, and cant put my brain at rest. but I have another appointment on fri to see the doctor again. it is just my fear if the baby is the mans from 17th jan, it was a silly mistake and wish I never got him, thanks sue x

hi there no I did not cheat, my and my ex had split up for 1 year, I would never have had sex with the other man if I knew we were going to be together again, the reason we split up was due to his problems,. we already have a little girl together.

Summersue, the issue is that you need to decide whether you are going to commit to your BF properly now that you are back together again. Take your thoughts further and ask yourself why you didn't think you would ever get back together again after a substantial period together. If his problems were the cause, then you need to decide whether these problems are well and truly dealt with because you will well know that you need to happy and secure for your children to happy and secure.