1-yr anniversary fail

My fiance and I just had our 1-yr anniversary last Thursday. We had a fantastic dinner and came home. I was anticipating a romantic, intimate night cap, however, when we went to bed and I tried to engage my fiance she said I guess I'm going to have to stay up all night in a irritated tone. I decided not to proceed any further due to her reaction. The reason she made that statement was because she decided to plan a trip to Florida the following day on Friday at 5am with her friend from another state. This left me feeling like our anniversary didn't mean that much to her. While in Florida I received 1-call each night between 11-1:30am. She was intoxicated each time she called. I'm not comfortable with how she handled our anniversary or her drinking all day everyday while in Florida, especially considering she was on the beaches in her bikini the whole time. I would appreciate some perspective from a woman and mens point of view. Thanks in advance for sharing your thoughts and opinions.

Hey right I think after a year together it is still pretty new in the relationship so desire should be still there. It seems she was preoccupied with the trip ....may I ask is this her first trip away? When girls get together we can go mad, i think it is good thing that she can have fun , it is better than her being controlling and insecure about your guy time. I can see how you feel left out? Or put on the back burner. I am a girl and I think you are over worried here. I think you are scared of loosing her? I think it is sweet. But there is nothing to gain from fighting or bringing this up to her. She will be on a high from hols and you will be a downer, it will not be received well and you will come across as jealous and domineering. Let her come home to you and see that you are a strong secure man, the holiday may not be as good as you think. I think it is sweet that you worry and miss her, and you think she does not miss you ..... chances are she does, drinking will mask. The fact that she rings you at night is nice too, shows she is thinking of you. I have to ask in advance about the anniversary.... did you know that her trip was booked for the night after your anniversary? Her mind was else where due to the trip. I know silly right but things like have I enough clothes, etc, did I pack this and that..... you know we like are products and like to be organize all this would be running through her mind. It was bad timing that is all, you should have booked dinner a few days prior to her trip.... I have an idea..... how about waiting a day or two after her return and you book something nice, or go away together to celebrate the years anniversary properly this time. I also going to suggest that you organize a holiday with the guys , that way you will understand that it is harmless and all part of a healthy relationship.