Story of my life?

Hello. I have a long distance relationship with this girl for almost four years and I know her for about six years. She is my first gf. Our anniversary is on 11th of April. Basically we grew up together, loved each other and supported each other in every harsh moment of our lives. Now, our relationship is starting to fall apart. She comes from a hostile household and all the stress generated by her parents combined with more stress from high school graduation exams got us some distanced. The rough part begins only now... Since our connection wasn't very strong lately she had this week moment and she met a guy in real life that she likes now. This thing made her believe that it is better to give up on us after all the work we've done and all the obstacles we had to pass. All of our parents are against this relationship so I believe you can figure out that beside the fact that we are at about 2000 kilometers from each other we have to deal with every week fights with our parents. We got to lie to them saying that we are no longer a couple. The pain is big and the time that has passed being together is really long... We have been through a lot together and I truly love her from the bottom of my heart. She is the one for me and I know that I'm the one for her too. We stopped each other from taking the wrong decisions and so improved our life and personalities. She is ready to give up on me, on us, on anything that we built in the past four years so she could have physical support as well from the guy he met, support that I cannot give at this moment because of financial reasons. This thing had a really big effect over me. I cannot sleep nor eat. I have lost a lot of weight and I am in a really messed up depression. I have been trying anything from letters, songs to rings... We both have saved money in the last two years to finally meet and be together in the real life... We were so close to reaching this goal but she begins college so all the money will go on that since her parents wont support her in any possible way. I have even wanted to run away from home and use the money I saved to go to her and meet her... It isn't enough and I don't have how to get that kind of money in such a short period of time. I am desperate, hopeless and more than frightened that I will lose her. She is my everything and so was I until some weeks ago. I don't want her life to get a bad turn. I know her better than anyone and I do know that if I wasn't here she would have fell into vicious habits and the bad entourage around her would have affected her in a negative way. I know that she isn't ready to take it on her own and I don't want other people to hurt her in any possible manner. She is innocent and naive, easy to manipulate and therefore they could profit of her while being in a vulnerable position. What can I do to win her heart back? She said that no gifts would change anything. That it is too late.

i think you have been taken for a mug here..... I am sorry this has happened to you..... I would forget her..... it is not your responsibility..... She has met someone else...... You invested alot in this and have become addicted, think about it ........ you never met her..... you do not know her..... you think you do...... your good character was taken advantage off. Invest the same concern for you..... end contact soon. Move on from this and learn from it.....

Well, you see, I still want to give this a chance and win her heart back. It's been too long to just give up like that. Open for other opinions.

She gave up on you..... respect yourself....

She hasn't broke up with me yet either told me that she wants this to be over. She has a confusion of feelings inside and I want to point her out that it is better being with me :/

Stop competing with this real guy by using tactics such as letters etc she knows her own mind regardless of 'her hostile background'. What would you know about how much she can handle in her life? you talk about her as if she cannot handle things without you!!!.... she has found someone ..... you knew this was a possibility with distance..... you are human and got drawn in..... Let it go.......

Hello, I want to delete this topic, how could I do that?