Someway alone in life?

I am guy 25 years old, and in my college days from 17 Years age to 21 Years age i was shy guy and crook as well which didn't match up with girls and was not able to create good friendships with girls then college got over and i got job ,now i feel very lonely in life i want girl in my life but can't marry because of not having higher paying job , i want to fullfill my sexual needs as now it always lead to nightfall.I also think that it was very shamefull that i could not create good relationships with girls or made any girlfriends So what should i do??It hurts me a lot and then can't meet any girl because there is no girl in my workplace ,i got sometimes very emotional with this ,please help out anybody??

Hi I would suggest that you join a club after work a class anything that you like and enjoy .... that will help build the confidence and widen your social circle.....

Rohit, I think you are mentally getting ready for marriage. If your job is a hinderance, try for a better job. Rather than hooking up with some girl for sexual needs, look for a girl with whom you would like to spend a lifetime with. You can check dating and marriage sites, find girls, meet with them, then decide.

I too am shy and while it can hold you back in life, you still have to get out there and try. Try joining groups or clubs and develop a social circle. Do you have facebook? Get one and add some people you know. 25 is not old or anything so no worries. You have all of your life to find someone. You will have to start out as friends though, not jump right into sex, if you want a lasting relationship that is. As for your sexual needs...there are other ways to take care of that without actually having a woman....