7 years & long distance love
I am 14 years old and my 'boyfriend' is 21 years old. We love eachother alot but age difference keeps getting to him badly. Other than that we dont have any other problems. Im always sending him paragraphs on what I think & he says they're really good but he doesnt respond to them. I would always tell him that its his choice to choose to keep this going or end it. But he doesn't tell me which one he decides. . The last thing he responded to me was "I love you too". & we are also long distance too. He hasnt chose between us to keep being together nor ending it. He doesn't pick one. What should I do?
Blossom, 14 is too young an age to get involved in a serious relationship. Its best to date and explore at this age.
Long distance relationship is very difficult and requires lots of patience and maturity to handle it properly. To top it there is a age difference too between you both meaning you both are on 2 different pages at this stage in life. You will be looking more into the romantic and expressing love side and he would be more looking at sexual things.
I think its best to end it. If he is not doing it and he is neither participating properly, you take the first step and say you would like to end this and focus on studies ir something like that.
That thought comes to my head too but ik him long enough to not even get involved with sexual things. The thing is I cant let go .
In the US, you are under age for an adult male.
He could go to jail for even arranging a meeting with you!!!
He is having an internet love affair - nothing more.
Find a BF in REAL LIFE who is near your age.