So sad inside... Torn on what to do:'(

Ok so I am dating a guy I really care about. He cares about me and tells me he loves me and we are happy together. I posted to the forum a whole back about him making comments about hot celebrities in movies And how it hurt me so much. I'm jealous. I know celebs are hot but don't want to hear him talk about them. Tonight we hung out and had a great time. When I got on Facebook it popped up on the newfeed he'd liked a funny meme with a half naked girl. Was it funny? Sure. Was it ok for him to think it's funny? But of course. Should he have liked it? NO . Not in my opinion. People from my church, and my own family have added him on Facebook and will see the vulgar things he had liked. He knows this pisses me off because I've told him other guys have done it before and I've took them off my newsfeed because I didn't want to see a half naked female everytime I get online. I'm so hurt. I just feel like he disrespects me by doing that. It's not common for him, but still. I sent him a message telling him it was gross and I surely didn't want to see that on my newsfeed and of course I look like the jealous b$&/@ girlfriend, the bad guy. It may make me jealous but that's not right of him is it?

Juno look at all your posts...you are unhappy in this relationship. You say this attitude of his is just a small one and you don't want to make it a break up deal BUT this is no small deal for you! It means a whole lot of things for you. You are looking up to your boyfriend to reassure you everytime which he is not capable of doing. You are expecting him to think of you every minute he is living and acting. Is it possible for anyone to behave 100% as per another's wishes? Is it possible for someone to keep reading your mind and act accordingly? I do not know, but surely this guy cannot. You would be much more happier away from him.

I agree ,this guy is not for you..... he is too immature he does not listen to you...regarding this he is like the guy who goes to the pub just to winge about the girl at home. In all of your posts you are hurt, it is not trivial if it hurts you. I no the feeling I found myself more times crying at the kitchen sink after discovering some vile objectification of a woman on my computer .... it is normal for it to hurt, knowing they are going to stripe clubs is worse.. So I get the dread you feel, I also get anger and wishing it did not bother you. The fact that he knows it too, I would end it.... this is getting serious when you are so upset ... this relationship is damaging you. If you are ending this it is not over pictures, comments , etc..... you are leaving because you are hurt , because this person has not heard you, and because you have discovered that qualities are not for you. Stop trying to torture yourself into fighting this. Think of a life where DREAD is not a part of it.