Addendum - is it love

Guys, after your views, I talked with the girl...she says that i cn be her bst frnd but she would never love me...i am in a dilemma...I love her and she knws it...still c is replying in such manner....what to do now ???? Help me please...

Hi.... A very big question you ask 'is it love' ? I read your earlier posts and I can see that you are stuck on this girl. Firstly well done on telling her how you feel, that took alot of courage and guts. I am sorry it was not the answer you were looking for, that was always a consequence , you took the risk which was massively brave. she was honest with you, and you got to respect that alot of girls could have taken advantage of you she respected you enough to be honest. These feelings are still RAW and will be for some time, for you. The only thing you can do is create some space between you and her. I do not know whether a friendship is possible after your revelation. Unrequited love is the most painful, but as the song goes you cant make someone love you if they don't. As a result you are left with all these feelings, channel them somewhere, writing, paint, have compassion for yourself, and turn that love back onto yourself. Don't forget you are a brave, sweet, and honest person and I can tell you, one day it will happen for you. Everything happens for a reason, don't wallow in the pain for too long though. Stop worrying.

Paul, just chill for a while, she is the girl you liked but she is not going to be the only girl you liked ever! There will be many more coming your way and who knows that someone who comes will be more special than the current one. You cannot change her reply and you cannot make her love you. She has tried it with you but it didn't work for her so we must respect that. Move on, find another girl.

Sweet SwanaPaul, The best relationships start out as friends, even "best friends," and if Mother Nature calls for this to be More, then she will say it is meant to be. The most you can do right now, is remain friends, and respect her wishes. I realize you love her, but she isn't returning these feelings, and May Never. Nothing in life is ever a guarantee but death and taxes, I always say. It's your choice if you want to spend your days on the "sidelines" moping and wishing, but life is too short, as you also Realize, and there Are plenty more fish in the sea than this little minnow.xx