He says he still loves me

I used to date this guy. We dated for about 9 months, we broke up because he couldn't handle a long distance relationship but we stayed friends. He keeps telling me he still loves me. He has had 4 girls after me and cheated on one of them with me. I didn't realize until I got home and saw his facebook. I'm not sure if I should believe him or not.

Hi Alex2005, So you two are friends now. He has been with 4 girls since the break up. One of them he was with when you both first together? nine months ago? I think this relationship should stay as friends or cut ties , if he is claiming to love you (while he is keeping himself busy with 4 other girls). Love is a word used far too loosely ..... did you ever sit down an actually think what is it? What evidence do you have on facebook? Present it and tell him how you feel...which is? Its like this a guy who gets with you by cheating , is not reliable and will do it again..... alot of the time. Move on and don't go back ways....

Sweet Alex2005, No one knows More about long distance love than me. I am married to a man out in Egypt, and although we have had many problems, next week is our 2nd year wedding anniversary, because no matter what---Love finds its way, no matter how long...or hard." It appears he still loves you, and although he may have cheated on one of the other girls with You, as long as he never did this while you were both together, doesn't make him guilty as charged until his dying day. However, I would imagine you are not sure of even That. Only a woman can really know if her man is true blue. Or at least Want to believe he loves only her, and is not this cheat sheet. Contact him if you feel the need now, and work it out if you feel the urge again. He may want to do this as well, but you both have to make a lot of concerted effort to nurture and nurse this distant door that has closed for awhile for you. It takes patience and team work and----trust---to do a relationship such as this one, but no one says it can't be done. I'm living proof that even half way across God's country, it Can Be accomplished. Good luck.xx

You can't believe him. He cheated on his girl but he also put you in the dark about it. How can you trust him again? He has proved that he will not be honest with you too. Tomorrow you can be in the other girl's shoes and you won't even know what he is doing.