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Would be right for me to get myself into such a situation? He's my boss & older

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So, I'm an intern in a law firm and my boss happens to be 4 years older than me. I have a crush on him and I think he does too. I've seen him looking at me but when I look at him he looks away as if he hasn't seen me in the first place. We have these cubicles so when I pass by his cubicle, he acts as if he hasn't noticed me but if I turn back and look, I see him putting his head down and looking back at me. Whenever he's giving us work or explaining anything, he looks directly into my eyes as if the other 7 people aren't there. He'll always ask me whether I understood the work. He's a jerk to others, he won't even look at them while they ask for work but when I ask he'll look at me, lean back in his chair, smile and say sorry I have no work for you today and look at me while I walk away but when he's standing with others he'll act like he hasn't seen me but I can see him looking at me from the corner of his eyes. Is he attracted? or trying to get lucky with a college girl? or just keeping an eye on his employees? P.S. I don't intend to act on this situation till my internship ends..

Would be right for me to get myself into such a situation? He's my boss & older

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Regardless if your boss is four years your senior, it wouldn't pay to get involved with him. It's not the done thing...he's a superior who should respect those beneath his station and those he's paid to manage and develop. While he needs to act professionally and unbiased at all times, you, yourself, have that responsibility as well. Control your crush for now and focus on your internship and be wary if he singles you out for favoritism because you're actually working in a team environment. If you have noticed his attention to you, then others around you in the office will have noticed it as well.

Would be right for me to get myself into such a situation? He's my boss & older

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No not professional and he won't care if it gets compromised. You will loose your job

Would be right for me to get myself into such a situation? He's my boss & older

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if hes like this with you chances are hes done this kinda thing before. don't be so naïve. its probably just a bit of fun for him

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