Confusing relationship help!!

my boyfriend and i broke up 3 weeks ago after being together for 7 month and last 2 month we were basically living together without noticing., he asked for a break up because he felt that he needs to be single (this was not the first time he felt half way he talked to me about it but nothing happened we kept on dating until now). So when we broke up because he wanted to be commitment free, he didn't want us to stop seeing each other since whenever we were together everything was great we get along so well!I told him no this is it for us i'll pass by tomorrow to pick my stuff and left i told him we'll talk tomorrow i have things i have to say but we never met up i told him not to contact me i needed my space to think i'll talk to you after. And i did, we saw each other we laughed hugged kissed and we've been seeing each ever since. However, we're not back together! he still wants to be single but both of us don't see other people, we always text each other and see each other almost once every 2 to 3 days. As if we haven't even broken up. I met his mom this past week, i took her road trips we spent a few days together all 3 of us. And he's always telling her what he likes about me, the little things i don't notice as if he's showing me off to his mom....we even watched a movie all 3 of together in bed. It has been very confusing for the both of us....and whenever i tell him i'm not feeling comfortable i want to disappear again he jumps on me and begs me not to do. Still he's confused and doesn't want to be in a relationship...and acts as if he's in one. We are exclusive everyone knows that.....but what do i do?

First it was his idea :s and second his mom came yo visit him during her vacation he hasn't been in contact with his family for almost a year and a half.i forgot this extra detail! Oh and he's been making plans with his mom including me in them! I didn't join most of them though. Hes 28 Im 25

he wants you on his terms thats not good. You want commitment from him but hes clearly not ready so u have to be firm with him and make it clear that u are not going to settle for less than what u deserve

Some people here are making it out to be this guy is planning all this out to be holding you on ropes end, which is not the case. This person is clearly confused as to what he wants in life, in terms of a relationship. His avoidance of commitment implies that he wants to keep his options open, he doesn't wanna feel chained to any relationship, as such he avoids all the problems with a relationship such as boundaries, emotional support, resolution of problems that occur in relationships etc. However he hasn't changed his behavior accordingly? Which implies he feels the exact same way about you still. Which is strange. Sometimes people feel they need to be single to be more independent. He may feel this, but isn't really accomplishing it. He still wants you in his life, as you make him happy. His actions are certainly not right. If he feels in love with you and wants to keep you around in his life acting this close, then he needs to get back with you. He isn't considering your feelings in this regard, he's holding you at ropes end. With this vain hope you two can get back together and if you don't and let's say he finds another girl in this time while your filled with this hope, you're going to be devastated. He can't put your emotions at that much risk! He needs to make a decision, does he love you? Or does he love you as a friend? He needs to act accordingly to this. He needs to lay out what he feels out to you, you need to know if he actually loves you. If he says he just wants to be friends, then you decide what to do from there. But from the looks of it, if that turns out to be the case you'd probably want to abandon this hope of getting back with him, as such you'll probably wanna go no contact for a little to make these feelings subdue themselves. I hope that helped, good luck with this and have a wonderful day :)