Have to choose between 2 women

I am in a really bad situation and need some good advice to help me make a decision. I have 2 ex girlfriends the most recent one was an 18 month relationship and I have a 2 year old child with and lives in another city not far away, the other I was with for 3 years and have no children with. My first ex broke up with me after 3 years because she wanted to be single again with persuasion from her best friend at the time, I moved out and she then used me for a good few months to bail her out with money problems whilst giving false hope of us getting back together. She then one day said we shouldn't see each other anymore so I moved on and 3 months later I met my second ex. We were seeing each other for around a month when she told me she was pregnant, I then moved to be with her and it was all rushed as we didn't really know each other properly. In time I found out she suffered with depression and had anger and temper problems , she'd also had a violent relationship with her ex who she has another child with. It got even worse when she'd had our child and she gave me no choice but to leave her which was hard because I did love her. She took it very hard when I left well over a year ago now and has wanted me back ever since but because I have been having contact with my other ex I'm now in a position where both of them want to be with me. They are 2 very different people and I love them both but I miss my son everyday and only get to see him one day a week if lucky, do I go back to my ex with the kids and try to make it work, get back with my other ex or start a fresh.

Bro, there\'s one thing a man cannot do successfully and that\'s juggle two women...although a lot of us try. You need to line up your head, heart and gut and see which women ticks those 3 boxes. If neither do, then move on from both. The hard part is your children but it\'s no use being together with someone if you\'re not happy. Children need a happy, stable environment. Ask yourself can either of these woman contribute to that with you. Can you contribute to that? Is that what you want/need?

RC1985 manalone is right. You need to decide who really does do it for you and who YOU really are in love with. You need to think about your child/mother of child and your ex partner. Staying with someone just for the sake of your child could resort in future misery which your child will sense in years to come. On the other hand you say the mother of your child has anger issues and depression BUT you do still love her so maybe you could work at her getting counselling for her issues. That could bring you both closer. You have also however mentioned that your other ex partner left you once, after foolishly being influenced by her friend only to use you a little longer for money with the false hope that she 'may' get back with you but then only to leave you. Is she still the same unreliable person? Could she do this to you again? Is she only trying to get you back because she has no one else? Why hasnt she settled down with anyone up until now? All these questions you need to ask yourself and consider. Try not to make any irrational move.

Thanks for the advice need as much as I can get at the moment. Im leaning more towards my ex with my child I think as I miss him aswell as her so thats 2 reasons to go back and try again and I think if I were to get back with my other ex I would be thinking about my my other and my kid too much which would be too hard .

If you feel you can manage your second ex's depression and temper issues and still remain happy then thats the better choice I feel. Even if you go with the first ex, looks like your heart will be with the second one so it will create complications.

Ye exactly I mean if I get back with my first ex im still going to have to see my other ex every week when I pick my kid up which I think will be quite hard so its not like I can just cut her off and not see her anymore .