Advice needed badly!!
LYNN2009 - Jun 15 2014 at 00:54
I met this guy online & forwarned him tht I had a boyfriend. We ended up falling for each other. Its been 3-4 months of a long distance relationship. Ive made several visits & we talked all day every day. He finally let the distance get to him a week before I was moving closer (other guy is out of the picture). He says he has mixed feelings abt the situation tht he can't shake & doesn't know if he wants to get back with me. He still talks to me all day every day & still has all my pictures and a blanket of mine tht he still sleeps with. I'm still head over heels in love with him & he says he still loves me. I want to win him back & try to help him get rid of those feelings I just don't know how. I was thinking abt flowers in our very first meeting spot which is wht he did for me.. Please help... I need ideas/advice
Send flowers if you want too. You can tell him where you stand and give him space, to figure out what is happening between you two.
It may possibly be a trust issue on his part, that you were in a relationship while texting him he could be scared you will do the same and who can blame him... just putting that out there. He maybe sacred of getting hurt.
Have an honest talk and go from there , take it slow, you are not long out of a relationship either. I think by you acknowledging this if it is a concern for him, which is quiet possible, maybe he does not want to be a rebound.
Organize a meeting together face to face.
Good luck.