What to do?

Hello, My name is Alex. I have been going out with this beautiful girl named Kara. She means so much to me. We are doing Long Distance but its working out well. We have had a very good road. We are in 4 month scomming up in our realtionship. Something came to my attention that got me though. I was at my gf graduation party and all of her family was there and hwat have you. Apprenlty one of my gf cousin said is Alex gay ?. Kara also said I wa sating a little gitrlt. She explained everyhting so well and very nicely. She not breaking upw ith me or naything like that but what do I do. Im not gay at all and I need help to prove to her that im non"girly' Please help me !!! emAIL ME [e-mail address removed]

You shouldn't need to prove that... Your girlfriend should know pretty well that you're not gay and "girly" normally. Even then the way others perceive you should not matter, and if they declare you gay because you act "girly" And then actually believe then, then it's not your problem. However, if your girlfriend took this little act or little piece of behavior literally and now literally believes your gay, that's a BIG problem. That shouldn't even occur really, there's not sufficient reason to believe "girly" behavior makes you gay in anyways. Also what did she explain to you? She can't honestly think your gay just FROM THIS RIGHT!? If that's enough to declare you gay, then I have little idea on how you'd prove otherwise. You shouldn't need to prove otherwise, your partner should understand if you sit down and tell them you're not, you're not. In conclusion I think you should discuss this with her, tell her how much it concerns you that you think she thinks you're gay and "girly". Tell her you believe it is not true and it hurts and concerns you deeply that she thinks that only based on that party.