Mum sleeps with my husband !!!! :(

We'll iv been with my husband 5 year in October he is my sweat heart my first love we have a lil boy together and we lost a baby we been throu he'll to be together both side of family don't approve and then he tell me he slept with my mum!! She was more then a mum my best friend - sister and she done that to me it happen while we was on and off and wasn't really serious but it still happend I don't no what to do leave him and never speak to me mum again or keep with him and carry on as normal I need advise ! Help please :(

They selpt together one 4 year ago iv stop speaking to my mum ATM my head a mess !

I have a copy of the bible at home and in it Jesus is said to have recommended forgiveness and compassion as I understand it in case this helps. God bless.

My blf is everyone in a relationship is capable of making a mistake. And if two people have love, they can and should work through the mistake. Sometimes such mistakes can after time strenghten the relationship. However, the mistake your partner and mother made is totally unforgivable. Should this be enough for you to walk away from your partner? Hell yes. I would run and never look back. Is this enough for you to walk away from your mother? In an ideal world yes but in reality it will be difficult because of the bond a mother and child share. Even if you did decide to walk away from your mother, eventually, old age of mother will most probably have you back in her presence at some point. And then you may be hit with a different form of guilt of missing out on all those years you both were apart. This situation must be heartbreaking for you. However, if you have cut ties with your mother for a little while, do the SAME with your partner.

I can't do the same with my partner 2 weeks ago sataday I had a misscarrige I was 11 weeks we had a scan at 7 weeks so we had picha of our baby and now our baby gone I'm still grieving I need him right now but my mum always been interfering in my marriage if we argue she got be there he told me the truth she had load of chance to tell me but she never :( iv done so much for her give her about 10thousand pound in gold and diamonds stuck but her ( mum dad split up 7 year go ) lied for her and she walkways treated me like dirt !

Sorry to hear about the loss of your child. It must be very hard. I hope time heals the pain for you. Your emotions are all over the place at the moment. So the advice one may want to give you may not not be the right time for you to be able to digest it all. Heal from the loss you have suffered. Try not to focus on any other issue (difficult I know). When you feel you are starting to feel better in yourself, maybe then you should begin to address such problems.