Help

I have a problem, I dated this person about a year ago, I was so in love with him. but people would tell me that he was cheating with one of my friends, i never got to see them and they always denied. I did see that he treated her different form other girls and I felt in competition with her. My friends would tell me that they would see them together hugging kissing stuff like that but i never wanted to believe it and when i would ask him he would start a fight. we ended up breaking up because it was too much fighting. He moved city and I have not seen him since then, a few months ago he send me a message saying that he misses me, and i thought maybe we could try again but we had different plans for our lives and he didn't even wanted to try. Then a month ago he told me that he was stupid and immature and that he misses me again that time I didn't even know how to respond. A few days ago he said he wanted to see me and invited me to the movies, I want to go because I want closure and see if I still love him before I live to college. The thing is that I didn't told him a direct answer so he stopped texting me. Should I text him to meet up or no??

Liz, It sounds like to me he reaches out to you out of boredom. His lack of action to try to reconnect is clear of that. Honestly, I wouldn't be so much what he says. I wouldn't meet with him again. If he really wanted to reconnect w you even on a friendship level- he'd prove it w his actions. A person's actions will tell you everything you need to know. Don't try to paint a different picture. Enjoy your summer before going off to college. Don't worry about this boy anymore. Have fun and good luck w college.

Thank you very much that helps a lot.