Two guy dilemma

Ok the short of it all is I've met two guys and I'm now in a dilemma as to which is the right guy for me, I've not been seeing them at the same time, but I need to sort this out sooner rather than later and make a decision. But I'm really struggling to decide. Guy 1:- I'm not attracted to, let me down a lot, don't have too many interests with, but I get on with him like I've never got on with any other guy before, we click so well it's almost like he's the other half of me and I can't stop thinking about him. Guy 2:- I'm attracted to, get on well with, have lots of similar interests with but he's very guarded and when he lets it down it's great but it's hard work when he doesn't. Now I've only known both guys about a month each so it's early days. What would you do if it was you?

My own personal opinion would be to go for guy 2. I don't like guys who let me down. If I got on well with him and he kept letting me down we wouldn't get on well for very long. Maybe for the first month that would be ok but a year of that crap and I would be fed up. Plus attraction for me is a big deal. Having similar interests would mean we got to spend more time together and there wouldn't be that whole fight later of "But I hate doing that, we always do what you wanna do. Im going to hang out with so and so because he/she likes to ....etc." Besides its only a month in, maybe guy 2 will open up more once he has had more time around me and see that he can trust me with his feelings. Its just what is most important to you. My most important factors are #1. Spend lots of time with me (common interests) #2. Passion (attraction) #3. Honesty and dependability (don't let me down). Three HUGE factors. I wont date a guy unless he passes all three.

Got to agree with COLDSNOWBUNNY. Guy 1 lets you down, means he's not committed/serious or he's got issues. If he's got issues by all means try to help him if you like, otherwise don't bother it's his choice. Guy 2 sounds a bit more complex... I've always been against any sort of ritual courting followed by obligatory sex, I prefer to see who I get along with as a friend, and if I feel there's potential I talk, ask how they feel... Though that's exactly what you're doing, I know! Honestly, guy 2 sounds like a nicer, if more complex, person. Try not to be so clinical about it though, it's love not some binding legal contract. I see loads of people jump into bed together after a couple of months because they've been "dating" and checking out "how they get along (how many times can we go at it a day)" but they have absolutely no idea how they really get along with someone else, as a friend, teammate and partner, which is ideally what you want in a mate. Love happens when it happens, you talk and see if it's possible, if it isn't don't go ahead with it, and eventually the pain stops. If it is possible, well... That's where my experience stops :) Oh, and remember (yes I say this is virtually every reply I've put here, but it's such a good piece of info) Guys like things concise and unambiguous; decisions are made, or you give the decision making to someone else, end of discussion. You tell other how you feel in statements, not a string of sentences. Girls are more likely to have double meanings and veiled information and discuss things in-depth for longer; make sure you've talked to everyone in group, make sure everyone's had their say and thinks they've gone over everything. Make sure you remember this when you talk with blokes; men are hunters, women are gatherers.