Have you ever checked your partner's mobile phone?

I have a problem. I think that my boyfriend chat with other girls by phone.I want to take his phone and check it, but I`m affraid. How can you help me? Maybe someone has such situation?

I told my boyfriend to pass the phone to me and tell me his password. There are to be no secrets between us and I understand privacy but I don't think it extends text messages. He should not say things to others that he would not say in front of me. That is our relationship. Some people have don't feel that way and that is their relationships. It really all just depends on you and your boyfriend. I would never commit to a man who was not 100% open with me. If they need privacy with their phone and e-mail, private chats, etc. then they better not date me because they wont get it. What are you willing to put up with?

Simple, forget your phone at home and ask him for his phone to make an urgent call.

Hi, JennyJenny I think firstly it might be a good idea to talk to your boyfriend about him chatting to other girls. When you say chatting to other girls, do you mean that you think he is being unfaithful to you? Regardless, it might be best to talk to him about it. Once you see things from his perspective you might have a better idea of his activities. Just because he is chatting to other girls doesn't necessarily mean there is anything going on between him and someone else. Try looking from his perspective. What would you think/feel if he was looking at your phone? If you don't mind him looking at your phone then you might benefit with clarifying with him that you think there shouldn't be any secrets between you two. So in summary sitting down and talking to him about it could be helpful. Don't feel obliged to follow this advice as this is only my opinion and you may want to seek further advice before acting. Hope this helped and I hope for the best with your relationship :)

I don't think this should really be an issue. If he's simply "talking" To other girls on his phone that should be fine, there should be no problem. He has the freedom to that, just as you're free to talk to any males you wish on your phone or otherwise. Taking his phone and looking can been seen as a sign of distrust. Why do you want to look at his phone? What are you expecting to find? Do you have any reason good reason to check his phone beyond feeling jealous? Do you have any evidence that he might be cheating or something? Is that a reason you want to check? If you don't have any other reason beyond this little "urge" of jealousy I wouldn't do it. I'd have faith in him. If it does really bother you endlessly you should talk to him about it, however I'd talk to him only if you have a good reason to suspect something, simply asking for the sake of seeing does sound rather distrusting. But, if he has a different attitudes to relationships and privacy it can work. Although I don't think they are all too common, as such best to try and avoid that unless there is a good reason. Good luck with your relationship and have a wonderful day! :)

Hello JennyJenny I had same situation.I even can`t sleep at night, but my friend adviced me to download spy to mobile program, and it really helped me. I hope it can help you!