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In love but can't be together

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Myself and my significant otherare engaged. I was living with my x girlfriend at the time and she is still highly obsessed over me and in love. I met my work fiance at work where my x girlfriend also works. My fiances father just died three months ago. At work my x girlfriend played a huge part in getting her fired out of pure jelousy. I a month later also was fired, knowing that that whole situation played a large part in my termination. I will get to the point. Ever since me and my Fiance met everyo ne at work and outside of work were overly interested in our relationship even when we were only talking. Everything escalated quickly aftervwe started talking, including interferance from co workers, friends and x girlfriend. When we are together alone we never argue, we communicate very well and can nevet get enough of each other and there nevet seems to be enough time together. Ok. Here is the QUESTION? SINCE meeting Horribly bad things have befallen each . I have only met her mother once and she forbid jessica to see me or come on the family propery. Her health has taken a turn for the worse, her mother took her money and the truck that her father left her. I could go onand on. Similar bad things have happened to me such as now i have no car. I am 39 and so is my fiance. To get to the point I have never in my Life, seen soo many people interested in others business. I have never seen soo many people interfere in others relationships. It has gotten to the point where we cant even see each other any more. Some unseen forces seem to be at work. We both would have given up on the relationship but not one GOOD FORCE has tried to keep us apart or person. It has all been Negative Evil people and things.Has anyone ever seen such a thing or wittnessed it in their own lives? If you have what can or should we do to overcome all of this?

In love but can't be together

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You and your fiancé need to get away from all the negative people in your lives and know that each other are the only things you each can rely on. You cant rely on your job, your ex, her mother, your car being there, but you can rely on her being there for you. Caring about you, loving you. Don't see the correlation of " all this bad stuff is trying to keep us apart" instead see that "all this bad crap is happening but at least I have this one good thing". People will be jealous and rude and toxic. Know them and get them out of your lives. Yes I have seen this. There is only one way to deal with it. Get them away from you. They try to talk to you, turn around in the middle of their sentence and walk the other way.

In love but can't be together

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Dear COLDSNOWBUNNY, people can be very jealous! And yes they can interfere a lot. Don't ask me why. Some people can't be happy so they don't let others be. Don't care about them, but care about what is really important to you. I think you can have many things, but for me the most important thing is this real connection you get with someone that makes everything make sense in this crazy world. I dont have that, but I am happy to see some people have and you can consider yourself lucky, because not so many people do. You can have your car, a beautiful house, a dream job...what all that matters if you don't have anyone to share with? On the other hand, you may have a difficult life, with some problems, but if you have by your side someone that you look and everything seems like is going to be ok because you love and support each other then you will find the strength to fight for all the rest I am sure. I do hope everything turns to to the best and that annoying people don't get in tour way anymore. You can then maybe play this song at your weeding! :) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jTK24sWT7TQ Peace and love!

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