Frustrated

MIGNION01 - Jul 30 2014 at 00:13
I am looking for a straight up answer to this question.
This guy and I have been flirting for a year now, we worked together at the time. He has always said no to my invites to my residence. Two weeks ago he said "Yep, I will soon when I am used to getting up early" Seriously?
Is this a polite way of telling me It's not going to happen?
This guy has always said no before because we worked together until last month.
For the first time he said yes with a stupid comment. So I was just wondering if he was simply being polite with no intentions of coming over for lunch (his lunch break)
I am very much frustrated and ready to simply walk away.
When you're not sure about what someone means - ask them.. I or anyone else can't answer for him and his answer was random and weird. I would ask if he'd like to go out for drinks or food first. You're asking this guy to your house - maybe he's not comfortable about that? Anyways you can always bring it up again nonchalantly and see what he says. Again if you're unsure what he means- ask him to elaborate. That way there's no confusion
Are you sure this guy isn't in a relationship. If he likes you he'll definitely make time to hang out during non work hours. Just be careful
You should walk away. He's not interested and your starting to sound a little desperate.