My husband had a one night stand

Hello All, I'm 26 years old and I been married to my husband for 8 years and we have a five years old daughter, my husband and I got married at a very young age, well Saturday he went handing out with his friends and he said he got really drunk while he was at the club with his friends, and some random girl came on too him and wanted to have sex with him, when it was time to leave he drop off his friends and was going to take the girl home but she came on too him again wanting to have sex with him, he said at first he told her no but she keep begging and he gave in and had with her he said it didn't last long but the condom break, when he got home his friend texted him and told him I hope you didn't do anything with her because I heard she has HIV, now he is so scared that he might have it too, we went to the ER to take an HIV text but he results was Negative and the docs told him to come back with in 3 months to get tested again. I'm so lost and I don't know what to do, this is his first time ever doing something like this please any advice you can give me will help...

So did he tell you because he's scared and wants to have support or because he's afraid you'd find out when he refrains from sex with you. ? Either way he seems to be thinking more of himself than you! He SAID the girl came on to him first. If he knew she was likely to approach him again, why did he end up alone with her? I'd ask him who he was with that night and who he dropped off before the girl. Then find out where they live and work out how she came to be last drop off. Then I would confront her and ask her exactly what happened and if she has HIV because you need to know for your own health. Don't take what he says as the truth. Get proof! If it's the truth he shouldn't try to stop you from finding out This May be your chance to believe him and trust him in the future but if you find out he has lied about any part of the story...... Well......

I think he told me because of both reasons, He said he dropped his Best friend off first which I know him, he called the girl and she told him she will give him her HIV results to prove to him that she dose not have anything, she is going to met up with her today. After all this what should I do, should I tell him to change his number and there can not be no more contact with her.

The only thing I can do is give you my opinion as a completely independent person. You have entrusted your faith and trust in your partner by believing that he has called her/met up with her and she is adamant that she doesn't have HIV. But what if he's lied? He has betrayed you with this girl and taken away your trust in him. Why believe him now? I would want to meet this girl and hear it from her own lips what exactly happened and whether she has HIV Rather than "erase" her by changing phone numbers ( which is maybe what he prefers) I would call her,meet her and ask her. Are you afraid of what you'd hear? Surely it's better to know. If you do it his way you will never know for sure and it will damage your relationship further.

Thank you for the advise!!! You are absolutely right I'm going with him too pick up the results and to ask her what happen that night, I need to know of he is telling the truth.

Good for you! Good luck and hope things resolve well for you