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I was seeing a guy for a month and we hit it off pretty much the perfect two since day one. however a few weeks before him and I started talking I had a one night stand with and ex of mine, I got pregnant. I told the guy I was seeing and of course, we can not continue talking the way we had. he still messages me to check up on me and calls me his nicknames for me and makes me feel on top of the world when we talk. I haven't told him how much I miss him and how much he really meant to me, since we are no longer "talking' should I tell him just to get it off of my chest. my emotions are all over the place because of hormones. I don't know how to deal with losing the relationship we had. he was the only guy ive really been interested in, in a really long time. should I just tell him how I feel about him before it gets too much later?

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NEVER hold back your feelings! Always say what you feel, get it off your chest. He may be feeling the same way but afraid to say it, also. Life is so short! Why can't you continue the relationship? He sounds like he wants to be there for you. Best of luck!

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Yes, if this man is the man you feel he is, then you should tell him how you feel about him. This is the only way to give you peace of mind with this situation, regardless of how he reacts. That fact that he still checks up on you and still calls you by his nickname for you, should tell you heaps. You need to 'open the dialogue' with him and you could be pleasantly surprised with what he comes back with.

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