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Not sure what to do. Is she playing hard to get or something else?

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So I have known this girl for a few years and 4 months ago we had a sexual history. We just reconnected at a festival we were both helping out at. When we were cleaning up we both went to an empty social hall to put a table away. I ran up and hugged her from behind and feelings began to return. Earlier that day she "said" she had a boyfriend but it sounded like she really didn't but was trying to get me jealous. She texted me today saying "When you hugged me I I felt something (like feelings) and I thought you were gonna make a move." I told her i thought about it but didn't and she sounded like she wanted me to make the move. She's still been distant taking hours to respond to text. She keeps on going along with this boyfriend but I'm not convinced because all she says is "We are doing great, We are doing amazing" Does she want me to make a move and go back to how it was? What should I do? Please Help. I am a senior in high school and she is a sophomore.

Not sure what to do. Is she playing hard to get or something else?

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First of all, many girls will say that they are in a relationship for a few reasons. 1. They are actually in a relationship. 2. They are afraid you will make a move and don't want you too. 3. They want to see your reaction when they tel l you to see how you really feel about them. In all of the different scenarios there is nothing wrong with actually making a move. The worst thing that could happen is that she says no. And then you go separate ways. Or she actually had a boyfriend, leaves him for you and you're the prick who ended their relationship. But if shes the kind of person who would leave someone for someone else, the previous relationship was either not working out anyways, or that's not the kind of person you want to be around. But to sum things up, when in doubt make a move and see what happens.

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