Is it wrong?

Is it my fault if am too clingy? Is it wrong that i want to spend more time with him?? Is it my fault if my life is a mess n hes the only person who gives a sense to it?? Is it my fault if my parents rejects me,my fault if i feel lonely,my fault if i need him with me at every step i take?? Is it my fault if am emotionally dependent on him? Is it wrong that hes my everything?? Is it my fault if i fell so hard for him?? If you had a gf/bf like me would u think its wrong,would you think its all my fault???

None of this is your fault. I also have parents who treated me like shit, and it is their fault that we feel the way we feel. However it's important that you get some independence in your life. Yeah, your parents weren't there for you when you needed them the most and now you feel dependent on someone who gives you love. But you must realize that a healthy relationship also needs space; maybe you should get into something that could benefit you like sports or a hobby

No, none of it is your fault. You are who you are. You can't blame yourself for that, however you can help yourself by recognising that you need to grow stronger personally and first step is knowing this. Do something where you achieve set goals which enables you to boost your self confidence. While you can have a partner who knows this, they also need to be an understanding partner as well because you risk smothering them unwittingly, and as the previous poster states, all relationships need space to prosper.

Is it my fault if am too clingy? Yes it is. Give a person their breathing space. No one likes clingy/needy people. It is nice to be felt wanted but constantly needed is emotionalky draining for anyone. Only you can change that. Is it wrong if i want to spend more time with him? Depends on what you class as more time. If you both already see each other near enough everyday and he decides to take one day out or an evening out to want to spend time with his friends then yes, that is your fault. Is it my fault if my life is a mess n he is the only one who gives a sense to it? No it is not your fault if your life is a mess but relying on just one person to make sense of it then yes, that is your fault because if for whatever reason that one person leaves your life, then what? Is it my fault if my parents rejects me, my fault if i feel lonely, my fault if i need him at every step i take? No, it is not your fault if your parents reject you, it is not your fault if you feel lonely but yes, it is your fault if you feel that you need him at EVERY step you take. The two people who should have been there for you, should have protected you, should have guided you, loved you have sadly rejected you then should this not teach you that this man could also reject you? Should this not teach you that you do NOT NEED this man for every step you take? Is it my fault if i am emotionally dependent on him? Yes and no. Again, depends on how emotionally dependent you are on him. Is it wrong that he is my everything? No, not at all. Is it my fault that i fell so hard for him? No, not at all.