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He says he doesn't want me but keeps telling me he loves me

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ive been with partner 4 a yr and a half got a 6 month old baby together everything was fine untill about 3 months ago then things changed we stopped sitting together on the sofa and being touchy feely with each other i didnt notice at the time as i was 2 busy with the baby but now its obvious. i confronted him about it last week i asked him if he still wanted me and he turned round and said he doesnt want anyone if hes honest that was that no more was said about it but im confused because hes tellin me he loves me and asking if i love him but hes still being off with me he wont sit with me or realy speak 2 me any advice please

He says he doesn't want me but keeps telling me he loves me

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dump him hes playing mind games!!!!!!!!!!!!!

He says he doesn't want me but keeps telling me he loves me

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Maybe it is just that he feels neglected now that you've been looking after the baby - I think it is quite common for partners to feel like they aren't receiving the attention they deserve and get jealous. Other children can also react in the same way, and even pets have a tendency to start behaving wierdly, not eating properly, sulking and the like. Have a frank and honest discussion with him before deciding what to do... you may still have a chance to sort things about between you if you can get to the root of the problem and you are both open minded.

He says he doesn't want me but keeps telling me he loves me

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If I am being honest, it sounds to me like you had your honeymoon period cut quite short by having a baby. Not that that is a bad thing, but perhaps you didn't get chance to enjoy eachother as much as you should. You should make an effort to get at least one night a week together, just for you both, to spend time together and enjoy eachothers company. Everything in life needs to be worked at, and I think you need to try or you will always ask what if. Good luck!

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