Unsure

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 yrs now.And we work different hrs which means we rarely see eachother.Lately his attitude towards me has changed so i became curious as to why and i went through his phone.I came across numerous text messages from a person listed with just the anitials.I did call the number and its a girl he works with.They are during his work hrs and they seem to text eachother everyday back and forth while working.None of the messages are really bad just kinda chatty or playful.i dont like it at all,but he's telling me theres nothing to worry about and nothing going on and im acting stupid.Does this sound harmless?I dont know if im just acting like a jealous gf or if this really shouldnt be happening.We have children and a house and life together.I dont know if i should be worried.

I would be the same as you, I thimk youve got a right to feel the way you do. If i was you i would tell him that this has to stop otherwise your relationship is at risk and that you cant carry on like this. This girl is obviously interested otherwise she wouldn't be so keen. Go and have a night out with him and try to rekindle the fun you used to have and let him see your not just a mother to his children but a fun loving person aswell! good luck