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Are my feelings reciprocated

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This is my first post so I am hoping this comes out in a logical way and I don't sound pathetic. I work in a small office, only three people. I have come out of a long term relationship and feel completely fine about it but have started to develop feelings for my boss who is a male. we get along and can talk about work and general personal stuff without it being awkward at all, however I had just about convinced myself that I was being silly and "talking myself out" of these feelings. The other day he went out for lunch and came back a little tipsy and then came and sat next to me for the afternoon and I'm pretty rusty but it felt like he just kept bringing stuff up to talk about so he could keep talking to me. So, my question is am I seeing things I want to see or is it just a slightly happy boss coming back from a liquid lunch. Or was he loosened up enough to flirt with me a little. As I said I'm competely rusty on mf new relationships so any constructive advice would really be appreciated.

Are my feelings reciprocated

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It is premature in my opinion to read into any persons reasoning for their actions when you haven't really gotten to know them. ESPECIALLY when alcohol is involved. Enjoy what comes in this moment and just stay your normal self. Just like in a good book or story the bigger picture usually gets clearer the more time you spend with it. Don't jump the gun and cause uneccesar anxiety for yourself. It is way too early to read into things. Collect more experiences with this person before you try to construct the big picture. My two cents :)

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