Impotent

hi I have been seeing a really lovely guy for about 4 months, he is loving and caring but in bed he is anything but, he has never had an erection with me i have reasured him about this, thinking it might help, he doesnt try to touch me sexually, id be quite happy for him to satisfy me in other ways but he doesnt i feel so frustrated i always seem to be the one to make the first move, i really dont know what to do help!!!!!!

life is too short..move on and find someone who is ready to go. U dont need that problem. OR if u really think hes-the-one.. talk about the issue with him. An erection problem thats been going on for that long could indicate any number of things. . maybe he uses crack ..or weed..or hes on antidepressants..alcoholic.. But personally i would move on .

Hi. I think she is right. I myself is in a long term relationship 6 yrs and he has this problem. When we first started dating he ejaculated within seconds. it got better for awhile. now im lucky if we have sex once a month. yes i've tried pleasing him other ways and he has no desire to please me. its hard work and if i had known that this is the way it would have turned out i would not have continued the relationship. best off finding someone who u can connect with on all levels