Should I or no?

Been talking to this girl for a while, we snapchat, text, skype, call, dates, everything all the time and we both like each other. We both have told one another that we like the other. She just recently started college to get her dream job, and she is really working hard and I support it, I help her out all the time for college with essays and such and she knows that I support her with college. I just recently asked her to be my girlfriend and she had said not right now, that she wants to focus on college. So after giving it thought I decided that I will still be her friend, help her with anything and be there for her but I will just "give up" on trying to date her. When I told her this, she said that she did not want me to give up on her, yet she still wants to focus on college. To be what she wants it's a good 4 years of college and I honestly don't want to wait 4 years to be in a relationship with this girl. I don't know if I should wait and see if things happen and we end up getting together before the 4 years are up or wait the 4 years or just tell her no I am still giving up. Please help me out and give me some advice? Anything is appreciated. Thanks in advance.

She said she wants to wait for years. It is not realistic for you to think that this will change. You stated that you don't want to wait 4 years. I don't blame you, 4 years is a very long time. I advise you to tell her that what she has to offer does not meet your needs, and so you are going to move on and find a relationship with someone who can meet your needs. I also advise you to not waste your time being friends with her - instead, focus your energies on people who can provide reciprocation. This girls sounds pretty selfish.

Thanks for the advice...she is actually spending the night tonight...so yeah that's happening