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Divorced and lonely

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I have a female friend who is recently divorced. They both live under the same roof, but he is very controlling. She is trying to get up enough money to obtain a place of her own. In the meantime, her ex insists on putting his nose into her business. Unfortunately, she fears he will destroy everything she worked hard to obtain. In fact, her savings is practically non-existent when it comes to paying for necessities. Her other problem is his jealousy. She is not able to have friends, including females. What should I do, as a friend, to be a better support for her? We talk practically every day, by phone or email. Am I doing something wrong? Any advice would be much appreciated. Thank you

Divorced and lonely

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The best thing for your friend would be to get out from under the same roof. Some women's shelters such as the YWCA could possibly help in the interim. She may find a little protection from her ex. Encourage her to seek assistance and stay by her everyday like you have been doing. If the situation becomes dangerous, let the authorities know.

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We live about 4 hours away from each other. So, I am not familiar with YWCA's in her area. I will mention this idea to her. Thanks for the advice Musing

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