Agoraphobic wife seems like she hates me

So my wife and I have been married now for about 8 months but been together for almost 2 years. We had a rough start due to her illness. I broke it off 3 times and then she lied about being pregnant but then actually got pregnant. I have really stepped up to be here for her and at first it was fine. Then our baby was born and to her I have been a horrible husband. I try to do everything I can but she doesn't seem to try or care. I know she has agoraphobia but a person can only handle so much I do loose my temper from time to time but who doesn't. I apologize and try again. I let her sleep and not do anything to help out. It never seems enough for her though.

I think you need to take the baby, get a dog and between the two you will be needed and loved enough. Then take them both and send her the divorce papers. Other than that you need to talk and go to a therapist, you for putting up with this, and her for staying with a man she clings to but hates.