Feelings for bf friend

Im attracted to my bf freind whos also quite a bit older than me and hes also got a gf but they dont seem the happiest either. Recently he has started joking around and having a laugh with me when we are alone, as im not the most talkative or confident of people I find it hard to talk back to him, he seems to have been making a effort with me the past few weeks helping me with work stuff and wanting to get to know me better. Now we seem to be getting closer but Im not sure if he has any real feelings for me or not as he doesn't seem to notice me when we are not alone, apart from giving me a few glances whens he made a joke about something. Ive seen him to today but not alone and he seems unintrested. Sometimes I think he likes some times I dont. Really want to tell him how I feel but dont want to make things awkward Please help as im starting to develop real feelings for him. Does he feel anything for me?

No no no no. Boyfriends friend is a no-go area. Its gonna blow up in your face. Contain your feelings and tell him its wrong for him to flirt with u. Let the guy respect your man girl. What happens if his gf finds out about u guys. He's gna drop your ass and your man's not gonna wanna hear any of it and guess who'll be left alone and feeling stupid?girl women don't give up on their men,whether they find em cheating on not. That girl is gonna fight for her man, who's gonna fight for u? Think this through. Good luck

He ignores you when other people are around, because he wants to cheat on his gf with you. He knows how to pay attention to shy girls. He also has no morals if he'd do that to his friend. Try not to be alone/have private conversations with him.

ABANDON SHIP NOW!!! Most of life is many grey areas. This is a blank and white, do not even think about it, area. If you ignore every person and gut feeling that should be screeming "DON'T DO THIS", you are going to loose more than just your boyfriend and this guy. You are going to lose everyone around them. You're playing Russian Roulette with 5 chambers loaded. That final chamber is gonna make you wish there was a bullet.