Boyfriend issue need advice

I have a bf and this friday we will be going out for 1 month. we have been friends for 3yrs before we started dating. the thing that has been bothering me is that ever since we have been going out, we have not hung out very much. and he seems distant. feels like were not really going out. but just recently i went on to his facebook to write him. and i saw that he wrote his ex girlfriend (been broken up for 3yrs) saying that he wanted to hang out with her. i am furious because he hardly ever hangs out with me but made time to hang out with her. i want to confront him but scared to do so. because before he ask me to be his gf he told me that he wanted to ask me sooner but was scared because he does not like drama. so what should i do? should i still talk to him, and tell him how i feel even though it will cause drama? please help!

I really think that you need to talk to your boyfriend hun. If you are his girlfriend, then he shouldn't be hanging out with his ex! Especially if he's not spending much time with you. Yes, he may not like drama, but if he cares about you he will understand why you have to bring the subject up! If he does say that you are just causing trouble and seems to not care about your feelings, then you would be better off without him. I know that you wont want to break up with him, but if he's so insensitive about something that would frankly upset any woman, then he is not worth it! Good luck to you hun and remember if he's not willing to change his behaviour then he's probably not the one for you!