Hard situation

this is the 2nd reason why until now we didnt talk yet with my LDR boyfriend ,. i dont undertsand him his trust his dout . and i didnt do anythin bad to make him like this ., Im a Front desk Receptionist in my career my duty is Monday to Friday 8am to 6pm , then Saturday and Sunday my Rest day , every Friday my office and i wants to have a Dinner just to make some bonding and also to relieve the stresses in our work ,. Whenever i tell to him that im going out with my officemate ,his always getting angry thats why we always fight what is wrong with the dinner its just only eating with my office mate ,. so even if i know that he will be angry i did it because theres nothing wrong with the dinner , its a part of lifestyle ..and then the 2nd reason is with his family last week his mother and his sister message and call me to inform that there will be a simple celeberation in there house so in my part im excited because his family is treat good to me and always welcome me but the sad part again is my BOYFRIEND when i said to him that im going to his home because his parents invite me he gets angry again and said that im always going out and going home too late again , i ask him do you still trust me ? its your family not others why should didnt come i feel angry because ask a irlfriend i did my part whenever i go whatever i did i will inform him first but his always against to what i always did :(( im so much sad because this what i dont want to happen he make me alone he wants to dont have me a soccial life which is a part a of life .. pls tell me what to do .. till now we didnt talk because i want to realize that he is wrong ..

What he is doing is very wrong. I was married to a man like this for 12 years. It isn't right and u should beable to go where u want when u want. It sounds like hes trying to control u and what he is doing is mental abuse. I would tell him he needs to change his behavior or your moving on.